A reason, A season, or a lifetime

There is a saying that says something like "people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime". It is so very true... and the funny thing is that it's usually the ones you don't expect that end up being important for a lifetime.

We meet people so randomly - thru friends or family, work, or our significant others. Each person you meet is sort of like receiving a gift - you have no idea what is inside...a fabulous sweater that will comfort you and keep you warm for many years to come, or an ugly nic-nac that doesn't match anything else in your life and you try to keep it around for a while (it was a gift, after all), but eventually it will end up being donated to Goodwill.

My friend Toni is one of those unexpected fabulous gifts. We met thru my ex, and she was "his" friend. I always thought she was cool, but didn't get really close to her while he and I were together. As that relationship was crumbling, I turned to her, thinking at the time she might be able to talk some sense into him or something, but I came out of it with something so much better...she became "my" friend, too. And now, 4+ years later, I am very proud to call her one of my best friends. (and football-watching buddy...I especially miss her this time of year!)

I guess what I am saying is never overlook the opportunity to meet new people and make new friends...yes, every once in a while you will open up a ShamWow or Ronco Potato Peeler, but there's always the chance that you just might find that warm comforting sweater you've been craving. ;)